Fixed my problem......
sheesh.
Okay here is what happened. I decided to use the ElfViewer as a good tool. I opened up Uru, linked in to Relto. Walked up to my book shelf, and opened the Gahreesen linking book. Then I exited and looked at the Python log.
Linking panel listed for it is: xLinkPanelGarrisonDefault*1#0.hsm
The difference being that I was using xLinkPanelGarrisonDefault*0#3.hsm because it was all I could find with Prp Explorer.
Then I looked at D'Lanor's template again. he's got a few different linking panels. They all end with *1#0.hsm
Rolling my eyes, I changed mine to *1#0.hsm and guess what? Linking book works fine now. Panel is there, and you can actually link.